Many will tell you that 2020 has sucked. Thinking of life from a community/worldwide perspective, 2020 has been very challenging on a number of different levels. But I think a good amount of people who say this, while true that things have been taken away from them, perhaps they have not had as difficult a time compared to many others.
I am thinking of those who lost a family member to the virus or the parent who lost their job and could not find a new one, struggling to make ends meet. I also think of people with mental health or substance abuse challenges who found themselves isolated from others.
We hear that over 300,000 have died from the virus and struggle to comprehend the suffering for those families and friends of the loved ones who passed, not to mention the thousands who got really sick and perhaps have lingering symptoms.
Perspective is so important and while the restrictions have been frustrating, I recognize I have been lucky and blessed in many ways.
Each year I like to list the highlights and this one is no different.
HIGHLIGHTS FROM 2020:
- Marrying Veronica (Wheeler) Schlegel at a beautiful ceremony followed by a fun mini reception
- Graduating with my M.Ed. from Eastern University
- Finishing my job with Eastern’s CSP program. While I am sad to leave, I love the community that we developed over my two years
- Landing my first professional school counselor job in a tough market
- Moving into a new home with Veronica and getting to live together for the first time
- Getting to run in several exciting races, including a (very hot) half marathon
- Lots of fun Zooms with friends and family, making the most of the situation
- Going on a camping trip/bachelor party with my groomsmen
- Fun trips to Dining Under the Stars, both with my family and friends
- Logging over 1700 miles running during the calendar year
I am very grateful for the people in my life, my health, and the opportunities I have. Positive psychology stresses the importance of focusing on our strengths and what we are grateful for, in the face of suffering.